I know you know what empathy means but do you REALLY know how to do it in a real convo with your kids?

Many of us think we're being empathetic towards our kids when they are struggling and yet, they seem to either get angrier or totally shut down and stop talking when we are trying to help.

What gives?

There is a slight tweak you can make and it will make all the difference between a productive and unproductive convo.

I thought y’all might enjoy hearing a real life example of how to infuse empathy into your interactions with your kids when they are feeling sad or disappointed.

In my interview with Morella Devost this week, I shared a story where I had a productive conversation with my son, Cory.  I discuss when he told me that Halloween was a let down this year. Trust me, I had to practically duct tape my mouth on this one to successfully model empathy.  

I love what Morella said about her work with adults and how she finds that when people are supported in processing a negative emotion, they tend to move through it and move on. She implied that when we teach our kids to lean into their emotions during childhood, we are preparing them for a healthier adulthood.

This is the point of having a productive convo rather than teaching lessons that fall on deaf ears. By doing so, we are preparing them for a healthier life now and in the future.

And for those of you who want more about how to be an empathetic listener and have more productive convos,  I have an awesome FREE resource comin’ your way.   I’m hosting a brand new podcast, Mastermind Parenting podcast, and it will be launching within the next few weeks for learning on the go from your smart phone. I can’t wait for you to have me in your ear while you drive, exercise and make dinner:). I will let you know as soon as it’s available.

Have a productive convo filled weekend with the people you love most!